Sunday, July 19, 2015


I was on a business trip to Connecticut. There was no time to play long distance. Travelling, unpacking, eating, meeting, sleeping, repeating. I upgraded to business class on the intercontinental return flight to catch up on sleep.

D/s is suffering .. and this mornings rule breaking makes me growl. She came without permission, and told me she deliberately did so ... but there is no time for corrections now, as we are packing up for a short trip to France. 3 kids, 2 dogs and a load of stuff.

I did hide some toys into the luggage. But I am not sure if this holiday will have any appropriate timeslot for 'play'.

I initially had put vacations as non D/s time. Last revision we took it out. Lets see how things work out ...


  1. Hope things work themselves out. I will admit, I have had the urge to break a rule (come without permission, etc.) if I feel distant from him. Sometimes I just want him to grab me, punish me, and remind me that I am his slave. Those breaks are hard on both of us.

    Enjoy your vacation.

  2. As some point, there will be time to implement your punishment. From a submissive's perspective, I would say that it is imperative that such a brazen act of disobedience should not be tolerated, and the punishment for such willful disregard for your authority should be as severe as perhaps she has ever received. Failing that, I can assure you that not only will it happen again, her respect for your authority will only diminish.

    Just a thought. I'm sure you're already all over it.